Ugh…

9c1ba1181d4be272404ae56f16dfb53bOk, no one said that this journey was going to be all spring flowers and rainbows, but yesterday was one of “those days.” Life was definitely lifing. It was fire after fire, this person needed this, that person needed that and they needed it yesterday, because it happened the night before and they didn’t tell anyone till last minute….UGH! I start work at 6:45am and normally finish at 4:15pm and then tack on a 90 min commute each way….yes, you read that right, an HOUR AND A HALF and already I have some long days. Yesterday I didn’t leave till after 5, got home just after 7pm…you can do the math for how long I had till I had to go to bed, to get at least 7 hours before getting up and leaving for work again.

I was starving by the time I left work because I hadn’t planned food for staying that late. By the time I was on the Skytrain for the last stretch of my journey, I was cranky and all I wanted was food to stuff my face before climbing into bed. I was standing at the stop and there is an A&W right there, I could smell those french fries…..ugh “not going to make me feel better” was the thought that I had. So, I made my way home where I promptly had a salad with some chicken. As I sat on the couch all I was experiencing was frustration and disappointed that I didn’t get to do yoga. As I flipped through social media for a few minutes before bed, my disappointment turned to pride. I had controlled the things I could, the big one, being food. As someone that is and has been an emotional eater, I stuff emotions, I don’t experience them. I didn’t grab the fast food, or indigestion inducing protein bar, I went for the salad.

I keep having these old cliché sayings run through my head “Rome wasn’t built in a day” or “You got to learn to walk before you can run.” I have to keep reminding myself that I am not going to be perfect 100% of the time. This isn’t about perfection, this is about learning, growing, embracing and loving.

Let’s see what today brings….

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2 thoughts on “Ugh…

  1. You know, life in the big city is hard!
    Unless you live here, know it; you don’t get it!
    We in this sprawling metropolis are finally (in last 2 years), are starting to see it!
    Working longer, going in earlier… not getting more ME time!,
    Losing out on our work- life balance……..
    Ohh, there is suppose to be a work life balance????? Really????
    Can’t wait to find that!
    How?? I’ve been late everyday this week! Lucky to be home by 6..,,,,,
    Used to be 4!
    Where did that go?
    So moral of story, is share your pain!!!,
    Keep up blog!
    It’s great for us!
    Thanks!

  2. So we need to start…. healthy alternatives for unplanned life….on a daily basis!
    Let’s get that going my friend!
    Nancy

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